I don't see how this is elitist. You are always going to have a portion of every population that believes the more you spend, the better it is. I find that to be completely untrue. Sure you should get better sound with better tech, but that doesn't always mean the music will sound better. Classic Rock, Punk Rock, Grunge, are a few of my favorite genres of music, and most of the albums were recorded poorly. A highly resolving system will sound much worse than a few hundred dollar setup.
I am all about finding low cost/high value gear. That is a far more exciting experience for me. The Monoprice M1060 is a fantastic headphone that I am loving the hell out of. With the Vegan pad swap, I'm under $400 total for a really fun and detailed headphone. They are more fun that the HE-X V2 for gaming and movies, and cost FAR less. Now the HE-X is a better headphone, but the M1060 is pretty close to it performance wise. I'll always own both, but they are my 2 favorite headphones at the moment.
I also just picked up a 2.5mm female connector to mod my Fostex TH-X00 Ebony. The stock cable is super strong and durable, but entirely too long and thick. I don't use them as much as I like because of the damn cable!!! I would love to use them walking around Philly, but can't in their current alignment.
Ignore the idiots who pound misleading information into your head, use common sense, and lookup some of the "Claims" that are made here about balanced being far superior, more power is better, etc. There are a lot of sane people here. Hope you can find some and enjoy coming back!