1 ) C'est dommage. But we don't hold it against you.
2 ) Ah. How about one of the NAD RP18s (Kevlar or Mylar). Or, going the other way, perhaps a YHD-3 or YHE-50, if you can find one. I confess that I've never heard any of the things you hear in the HP-1, so I have no idea if these headphones will give you what you want. I'm simply concentrating on the "fun factor" and crossing my fingers. Does anyone else have suggestions for leeperry?
I definitely agree with the last two bits. The few times I've heard one of the Neo Orthos, I became convinced they were a full step beyond anything I had, but that the tradeoffs, the tuning and tweaking, had just begun. The high price makes the Neo Orthos viable at this stage, but also raises expectations very high. It also opens a wide price gap-- wider than the performance gap-- between the Neos and even the priciest vintage orthos, and many people will default to vintage who don't care for the diy approach, which creates dissatisfaction. The gap needs filling and it looks as if some upcoming product from HiFiMan is designed to do that. If any of the major players is moving in this direction, they're being very quiet.