"musicality or some engagement is a must"
my first place on my priorities.
"I haven't heard a Grado yet, but it's next on my list of auditions"
you will be amazed. tell me your experiments after the grado session.
"In terms of musicality overall I found Sennheiser the worst, I just can't get engaged with most of them",
agreed. even hd800 is non-music proof.
"Beyers can be a little lifeless but some are not lifeless at all like the DT 990 and I generally enjoy them"
nothing special here: only the bass departmen is raised a bit. that helps a littel bit to warm up the overall signature. but grado musicality I'm talking about here is something else. i mean TIMBRE.
"I always found AKG full of life, enjoyable, and realistic"
yes its technically a miracle to listen to a gitar solo in the left corner of the stage and at the same time the singer is in front of you.
but after you listen to grado you will say: i feel the spirit of the song. and that's the most important: grado can give you the best midrange as possible (most important in the FR) and the give you most accurate acustic instrumentation.
"The only STAX I listened to was a little on the boring side"
now thats a shame. but japanese ear are different - their whole line up is for their music their ear.
"The best, most enjoyable, most musical, and realistic headphone I've heard was the R10"
should be true. everybody is raving about R10's - sony is a mass product, it is specialized for the whole planet.
"I wouldn't dismiss amplification"
never sad that, I only wanted to assure you that I were listening to EVERY headphone with nice amplification.
"I can't comment on cables as I haven't experimented with them but I can see copper vs silver cables making at least some difference."
same: i used Van Den Hul line always -best cables ever - so that was not the weakes link in the chain.
"Different ears, dunno, but different preferences is definitely something that makes a difference among people."
piano should sound like a piano. gitar like a gitar. this is the point of headphone manufacturing.
"well it's recorded and mastered music"
you can easily make your decision for a well mastered violin (or not well mastered) if you listen through Grado.
"every single headphone is colored in some way"
yes but there are more colored ones and almost no coloration too.
"If audio was recorded and mastered perfectly..."
for example chesky mastering is pretty perfect. you shoud listen to these if you figure out which headphone is the most musical.
"realistic isn't everyone's goal or ideal either."
sorry i have to disagree. for example: DRUM
each type of drum head serves its own musical purpose and has its own unique sound -> this unique sound we want to reproduce on our mastering and on the membran of the headphone too.