There is another aspect of this that leads to hard feelings. Objectivists understand the difficulty in being objective, scientists adhere to a set of principles they call the scientific method to help them keep their prejudices and intuitions out of the process of seeking truth, engineers have their own toolkit and logic for problem solving, doctors are taught a method for diagnosis that helps them kept out of the trap of faulty assumptions. Believers have no roadmap for arriving at an unbiased answer. They freely admit they trust their senses and they are proud of how well their senses work. They also have a liturgy of facts that have been discovered through their approach to inquiry. It includes beliefs about wires, fuses, balanced circuits, and its own vocabulary (harshness, grit, bass grunt, warm, dark, bright, voiced, etc). Their belief system has many of the characteristics of a cult, if not a religion.
And we all know what happens when you attack someone's religion. It's worse than attacking them, and they react strongly because it is an attack on what they believe. What do facts have to do with it? Not much. Psychology research on the consequences of confirmation bias shows that when you cite contrary evidence to someone who strongly believes something that is demonstrably untrue, they not only don't believe the evidence, having heard it actually reinforces the strength of their beliefs. Let me say that again, trying to prove them wrong makes them believe their erroneous conclusion even more strongly! That's what the research shows. Humans are indeed a very perverse species. So when you tell someone who has spent $1000 on an IEM cable because it really brings out the bass grunt and smooths the mid-treble grit, that blind studies show they can't tell one cable from another, what you do is make them hear the differences more clearly and make them angry at you for suggesting they are wrong. They are absolutely sure the cable makes a big difference and they are indignant and offended that you say it doesn't even when you prove to them they cannot tell one from another in a test.
Some of us are ready to be proved wrong if we're wrong. Others seem to get great ego satisfaction by bandying around terms in a way that proves they are a member of an elite group of savants. It's like mixing oil and water.