Thanks to all for the recommendations.
Did some digging and here's what I found...
I don't think QKZ VK4 is for me, it might be good for the price but I don't want good for $15 I want very good for a bit more.
I still think Kbear Diamond has too much mid bass, and that shape and looks, not a fan.
Jade Audio EA3 appears to have treble on the sharper side with possible sibilance...
So out of all recs I feel like Dunu DM-480 is the closest to what I want judging by the comments here, and I almost ordered it. But then i found some not so good comments / reviews elsewhere, so I don't know.
I've mentioned that I want something similar to blon bl-03 but with less mid bass and clearer mids, better treble... Maybe I'm wrong maybe these recs are decent upgrades I never heard any i still think BA5 is potentialy the one. Not very expensive, good looks, isolation, sound sig perhaps, but dodgy QC.
All these have pros and cons and to my knowledge so far there is only one iem with literally no bad comments and that is ISN H40 but it's not exactly budget friendly costing $200 and might be darker than... I would like to see what ISN produce next before I commit to H40.
Maybe closer description to what I want is budget version of S8F if possible.
Anyway thanks
Edit
Eg. S8F deals with this song perfectly. This is why I want faster less bloated bass, and tons of detail, but w/o 2-4k bump