20+ years ago when I started spending time on online discussion boards the overall vibe was different. People interacted more like in person and were acted accordingly. There was more respect of others. If you made someone mad with what you wrote it was closer to making a person in your life angry. Then people learned to act differently online: People want validation* and if they don't get it they get frustrated which can lead to tantrums.
I have been like that too, but I have tried to learn away from this behavior. I have accepted I will never get validation for anything from anywhere. I am just a loser waiting to die away. While waiting, I can try not to be an asshole online. This is difficult, because no matter what I say, someone is going to think I am an asshole... ...anyway, if the interactions between people were more genuine in the beginning, things changed: Bots and sock puppets arrived to create chaos and people with money and power started paying people to regurgitate propaganda online.
I don't know if people can tell it, but I am a genuine person. I am not a bot or sock puppet. Nobody pays me anything to say anything. 100 % of what I write is 100 % my own opinions (hopefully also close to the facts were in sound science forum!). I am not the most polite person you meet, but I am not mean either. I am mildly autistic and I suck at social interactions. Things like social norms are irrelevant (even annoying!) to me unless they make logical sense. In general I don't want misfortune to anyone and even if we autistic people feel like robots when you interact with us, we also have a deep sense of justice. We are humane and we advocate equity in society. My high-functioning autism gives me the "super-power" to think outside the box and find solutions to problems "normies" can't see, but unfortunately my IQ is closer to 100 than 200 and that has prevented me from becoming a new Einstein or at least a validated person in science. I am too dumb to be an eccentric genius and too autistic to became anything else, because everything else (even career in engineering it seems) needs social skills. That's why I am nothing. Well, that isn't the truth. I am me and I am the best in the World being me!
* I believe the World has changed in a way that has robbed people from getting validation in life and that leads to the need to get it online.