swbf2cheater
Headphoneus Supremus
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Girls want you to be moderately aggressive and chase them, staying in that friend zone for too long is not good if you have feelings for her.
based on your posts in this thread, you already are the douchebag you are asking if you should become - congrats, I guess?
if I may be so bold, you could stand to be a little less into yourself. women worth being with do not care for that type at all
I've scheduled a hair cut, I haven't cut my hair, in 4 years, that real enough for you? I went to the venice meet, I had long hair there, it is about to go....
This is something that was in me for a while, most normal guys go through it, have their one night stands, their booty calls, their friends with benefits, unfortunately I'm going to be hitting it harder and faster because I'm condensing what most guys do in their late teens early 20's into a couple of years because I'm far behind (I'm 25 btw).
I agree with this. The real keepers won't go for douchebags.
I'm in the same situation... I'm 25, never had a girlfriend, never had a date, etc. When I'm not at work, I spend all of my time alone. But becoming a douchebag is the last thing I'd ever do. Change comes from within, not without. Take a good look at what you want in life and adapt to get it, but don't mold yourself around petty crap just so you can get the 'girls that go for douchebags.' They probably have diseases, anyways.
I agree with this. The real keepers won't go for douchebags.
I'm in the same situation... I'm 25, never had a girlfriend, never had a date, etc.
Nothing wrong with lack of experience, male virginity, etc... Sometimes it's better having a simpler life. It can be a one of the pathways to spiritual nirvana man.
^^ Good advice, I will take it into consideration, Thank you Uncle Erik.
Quit leading the man astray! He needs to get out and mingle, just because I never dated or anything doesn't mean I didn't go out and try, In fact there was this girl named Norah.... Saudi Arabian she was, a sucker for my blonde hair, we hung out for a while, she wanted me to buy this movie, so I did, she came over and we watched it, she was laying on my bed, I was sitting on the floor next to her, she asked me to lay next to her, reluctantly I agreed, (I have a futon, equiv to a full sized bed) she then laid on her side and started twirling her finger in my hair, but I was a "good guy" and didn't do anything, from here on out, I'm gonna do something....