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Okay, I focused in on this today and sure enough discovered my makeshift coupler is introducing error. Its length has major bearing on the resonance peaks and dips in both magnitude and frequency.
Measurement with a shorter coupler:

(Better aligns with the two previous measurements published)
Measurement with an even shorter coupler:

(also diverges from the two previous measurements published, so probably is also inaccurate as what I originally shared but then deleted in the previous post.)
Tho, it does seem that the frequencies at least, if not magnitude, of the peaks and dips at and immediately above 5300 hz, as well as the big dip near 16KHz are not affected by the coupler length. Leading me to believe those are not being introduced by the measurement rig, are real and are always there. So candidates for parametric EQ'ing.
I will try to measure a number of iems that I have with different coupler lengths to try to discover which best gives me measurements that correlates with measurements others have made (found in the AutoEQ github distribution). Atm before that, it seems at least my "shorter but not shortest" coupler is my best so far.