In my case, I have an Ifi Pro iDSD which has solid state, tube and tube with correction for distortions, whatever it means.
Pro iDSD set in 'Tube+' mode reduces available negative feedback to a minimum. As a result, a greater amount of the tubes' natural harmonic distortion is produced.
If amp/preamp has tubes it doesn’t mean that whole signal is routed through them.
True. Pro iDSD's circuit set in the 'Solid-State" mode doesn't include them at all.
even if amp/preamp has tubes it doesn’t mean you get tube sound.
We'd have to first determine what tube sound is and isn't. Tubes can be warm, rich and mild as much as they can be fast, direct and open. It depends on a tube and what one does with it.
Adding a tube is more as a marketing thing in most cases
Whether one likes tubes or not is a subject for broad discussion, but I'd say that manufacturers into tubes know how to build circuits around them, which is more related to their knowledge on the subject and less so to marketing
I couldn’t hear any difference among the half dozen filters either, at which point I realized I threw money to the shitter, but that was before reading this forum.
On this forum you can also read that many people found differences in Pro iDSD's filters and analogue stages rather clear and substantial
This of course doesn't mean that you're in the wrong. If you don't hear any changes, you don't, which is fine, but at the same time this doesn't mean that there aren't any
If you still have the product, I'd suggest listening to it in one mode for extended time, say several days, and then switching to a different mode.