Yes that is pretty much human nature, women search for security, men search for care takers (it also helps if there is an attraction as well)
We took a gamble on each other, at the time we met I really had very little to offer, but I guess she recognized the potential in What I love to do & she supported me in this endeavor. She said, "You will never be a man, unless you chase your dreams. " With her encouragement I quit my job & went commercial. (And fortunately Brannan, joined up shortly after)
She has been by my side from day one, she helped build the first review set that was ever publicly seen (Project86, Bamboo cross grain cut checker board face plate)
I saw her potential as a care taker in the way she took care of her elderly/invalid grandmother & the respect and love she showed her parents. She also takes great pride in her cooking prowess, & wants her man to be rotund, as in her mind, this means she takes good care of her husband
In the end I think we both took a gamble, and so far, it has been nothing but Aces.