He didn't mention a LOD dock. I have a cMoyBB and I use my Android phone as my PMP. In order for the remote to work, you need the 45 degree jack with the three connector rings to be plugged into the phone/iPod. I'm not inverting my cable. I'm just using the 3-button cable as the connector between phone and amp and then using another cable(doesn't matter what kind, just a 3.5mm to 3.5mm audio cable) to go from amp to V-80 and you can can control the phone with the cable that goes from amp to phone.
I mentioned both types of button cables(1-button Android and 3-button iDevice) because I'm assuming he has the M-80 which includes those two cables. I have a V-80 which comes with the 1-button Android cable and an audio only cable. No modding of the amp, no hardware tinkering. Just plug the 3-button cable into the iPod like you normally would to use it without an amp, plug the other end into the amp, use another cable to connect to the headphone. You have to use the cable that runs between the amp and and the iPod, not the one that's conveniently located near your neck. It's looks stupid, you have wires running all over the place, but it works. Trust me, that's how my set up is, although not great for portable use.
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