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Originally Posted by Tuberoller
Anybody else going through something similar? It seems that all the "available" women are screwed in some way.
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Hell yeah! Welcome to the club. Lot's of messed-up women out there. I never knew how prevalent the use of serious prescription anti-depressants were until I started dating again about two years ago (after ending an LTR). I wonder how these women hold down jobs (some very high-powered ones too!), or just generally deal with life *shrug*. Quote:
You know,you just seem to get so many conflicting signals from women. I mean do they just want sex or do they wanna a real realtionship,What? |
Most women are fairly progressive with regard to sex, but they don't want to actually voice it outright. It's more rare (but not impossible) to find one that is as forward as you describe. They seem to prefer acting the "lady" to most of the world, but will drop down & do the "nasty" with a man who they deem sponge-worthy. It's a game, with a bit of a dance thrown in. If you want "play", you've got to play. But that way, they don't have to honestly face (or voice) the sexual animals they really are underneath. Seems a bit silly at the outset, but eventually you just learn to accept it as part of the ritual.
Dating-sex is based on only 50% honesty, and the other half lies (either outright, thru ommission, or even to ourselves). It's when the lying part comes to light (and it eventually does), that the relationship goes into the gutter and you are back on the market again. Quote:
Then there's the woman at the Cingular phone store...that looks like Rosario Dawson and has a "phone sex" voice. |
In that case, all is forgiven. Love, love,
LOVE her: