As someone who loves the product I agree it has way too many teething issues. Thankfully the early adopters stood on the bigger landmines for the rest of us to follow, and I haven't had any of the other issues in mine, like the too tight plugs. Definitely not as smooth going in or out as my DAPs, but not an issue if I'm careful with them and disconnect gently. That said, you shouldn't have to be so gentle with cables in a device designed to be used on the go. Hopefully iFi learns from this and we see notable improvements in future products.
I‘ll keep Gryphon in consideration still and I’ll take a look at the Chord Mojo 2, but of those only 1 will survive (or maybe neither) which will then go against whatever the top DAP I have under consideration is. Likely the M9.