Nice thread! Any reason you stay away from Bose? I have tested (and owned) a shutload of ANC wireless headphones but I keep using most my 7 or so years old Bose QC 35 MK1 ... they are super comfortable, sound just how I like them AND they have the best multipoint management out of all my headphones, which do include the Airpods Max! Those behave awkward on occasion with several macs and iphones and iPads around, not so the QC35. Also a big fan of the XM4, but those turn into ear saunas for me after a while. I also cherrish a few older models, like the very first Parrot Zik. Or my old wired Beats Studio SE in honey yellow

I had those Jabra 85h for a hot minute, bought used and returned because one side started failing ... i might try to get those again, they were nice.
Basically I am buying a lot of 2016/17 models used, back then they were way out of my price range

Like the first B&W .. they are still pretty awesome.
Yes, I am a hoarder