I was fooled by myslef like a rookie...
The bass difference is not coming from the membrane being looser... but of course it comes form the pads. As I received the new ones today, I could change them on two srx. and then they had the same sound !
as I had tested different pads on different srx, I had lost the original sound. but, on the last ones I mended, I used the original pads, and it makes a bassier sound than with previous pads. That is stupid from me, because I should have realised it. My little excuse for itis that I lost the standard sound after making tons of tests. Well, this is not really the standard sound, as it is better when removing the black ring ( photo sent yesterday).
I also tried with these bigger pads I ordered and showed the link for. We win a bit bass, but the drivers get further from the ears and of course, we loose some "cristality" in the highs. So, I prefer them with the original pads. Ordered new ones already as mine are very old and need replacement. but impossible to find the real original stax anymore, or at a huge price if I remember well. and not being sure they really are available. ordered the good size for somthing that will hav a chance to be compatible. Couldn't find as thin as the original. I will see if it makes it or not, and what it changes.
one good news among bad : my last repaired stax still is perfectly balanced.