Finally finished my 12AU7 build up with a lot of help from the_equalizer (thanks so much, you're a very patient and helpful guy). Just wanted to share a few things I ran into that might help someone building one in the future. I'm sure some of these things are super obvious to those who have built stuff like this before, but I know I struggled with them when I started building this.
A)
12AU7 Tube socket = 7/8" hole. A step bit (even from harbor freight) does a really great in making perfectly sized holes in metal).
B)
I had some buzzing issues, that were fixed by doing two things:
1) Make sure your wiring on the volume pot is correct. I had my inputs flipped with my outputs and that induced a great deal of 60/120hz hum.
2) Make your output wires from the volume pot to the 12AU7 as short as possible. The shorter they are, the less noise they pick up, and the less noise that gets amplified by first stage (tubes).
C) The 6mm knobs that are speced for the volume pot suck and don't fit on very well. If you can find something better, get them. They don't push on nearly far enough (even the deeper knob that mouser has in stock). I had to bore out my knobs a bit, and then glue them to the pot to get them to go on far enough and look nice.
D) My biggest screw up was ordering 390 ohm resistors and not 390K ohm resistors for R2 and R8. The difference between the incorrect 390 OHM and 220K OHM resistors makes the tube heater voltage very high (thanks the_equializer), the tubes very bright (and unhappy) and will quickly blow out the mosfets due to a higher than speced voltage on the gates.
E) I put a double pole switch on my outputs that when off isolates the headphone jack from the output of the amp. I didn't want to have to keep plugging my headphones in and out, so I put a switch to disconnect. This way I can turn the amp on, let it warm up, then flip the mute switch. When I'm done, flip the mute switch off, flip the power switch off. No thud, no voltage spikes on the output = happy headphones.
Here's some pictures. Case is a rad shack project box.
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F) To anyone thinking about using these heatsinks:
http://www.mouser.com/Search/ProductDetail.aspx?R=657-15ABPvirtualkey56720000virtualkey567-657-15ABP Those pins don't pull out. They will shear off before they will pull out (speaking from experience). They're nice heatsinks, but just be aware of this. If you want to use them though, they must either be soldiered down (if they're on a material you can soldier to) or flip them over, and use the holes on the other side. Don't even try to pull the pins out, you will just make a mess.