Is it possible to be in love with someone you barely know?

[John2e]

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Originally Posted by Kirosia /img/forum/go_quote.gif I'm a bit off the rocker but nowhere near that far off.

Good to hear. I do not think a chat with a trained professional would hurt. We all at one time or another could use one

 

[Kirosia]

^ I wouldn't mind a little therapy honestly, but for the time being, love songs and a mini-bottle of rum will have to do. (I rarely drink, so it's cool)

 

[John2e]

Have you tried computer dating. People can view your pictures and decide if they want to talk with you. You write very well and this will help. Also it is easier getting turned down on the computer. Even the best baseball players will only get a hit 30% of the time.

 

[logwed]

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Originally Posted by Superpredator /img/forum/go_quote.gif Not necessarily. Because his avatar is so adorable, a lot of people mistake Kirosia for a girl.

True life, totally thought that he was a girl for a while.

I'm very sorry to hear about the outcome, Kirosia, but I still feel that it is better than you pouring your guts out, because guts are gross and no one wants to see that. And about getting those numbers, do you ever act on those, try to get some sort of relationship going? Not that I know you very well, but it seems to me that you just need to work on being comfortable in a relationship/near-relationship setting.

 

[leeperry]

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Originally Posted by Kirosia /img/forum/go_quote.gif for the time being [..] a mini-bottle of rum will have to do

right on!

YouTube - ***** Ain't **** - Funk Doobiest

 

[midoo1990]

IMHO if she really liked you,she would talk to you and she is the one that will initiate the conversation.i am also in university and i have a girl in my class that always look at me and try to start any kind of conversation with me even if stupid but i always block her,not because she is ugly or something like that,but because i really cant stand her for many reasons.
try to talk with her and if she hangs out with you and spend much time alking with you,then ask her out,and dont ever tell her that you have a crush without even knowing her well,you will probably lose her that way or even better you can make a scene in university and she begins to shout at you

By the way,you should change your avatar,i always thought you were a girl

 

[Deep Funk]

'She Hates Me' by Puddle Of Mud followed by the debut album of Rage Against The Machine and/or 'Appetite For Destruction' by Guns N'Roses should be good therapy.

Happy hunting Kirosia...

 

[Happy Camper]

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Originally Posted by demoNMaCHiN3 /img/forum/go_quote.gif If you can't wait then just whip it out and stick it in her butt. This will tell you definitively if she's into you or not based on her response. This works for me.....sometimes

LOL

Before or after the introductions? Mustn't seem too eager, they may take it the wrong way.

 

[Kirosia]

The amount of people who want to sleep with me in this thread is astounding.

 

[John2e]

No air supply (ever)

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Originally Posted by Deep Funk /img/forum/go_quote.gif 'She Hates Me' by Puddle Of Mud followed by the debut album of Rage Against The Machine and/or 'Appetite For Destruction' by Guns N'Roses should be good therapy. Happy hunting Kirosia...

 

[Happy Camper]

K,

I'm glad to hear you still have blood pumping in those veins. This one may not work out but you haven't given up so..... happy to see ya still alive.

I think the hardest thing a person can do is choose a mate. It takes forever to figure out the best fit. We usually choose the wrong traits and miss the target. Use this for reflection in your life. ID what it is in this person that attracts you so much.

Good hunting.

 

[Superpredator]

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Originally Posted by Kirosia /img/forum/go_quote.gif The amount of people who want to sleep with me in this thread is astounding.

I know, right? There's no excuse for you to be lonely now.

 

[Mr.Sir]

I know how you feel - it is difficult to sit with someone in class and try to chat normally while constantly thinking you want more with them.

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Originally Posted by Kirosia /img/forum/go_quote.gif The amount of people who want to sleep with me in this thread is astounding.

If things don't work out with this girl you should probably attend the next meet...

 

[Uncle Erik]

You really need to get out more, Kirosia. Become a "regular" at some hangout, like a bookstore, coffee shop or a bar. Get to know the other regulars and the employees. Relationships will come up in small talk, so let them know you're looking. Take along a wingman or, if you have a female friend, take her.

Women are really good at sizing up other women and breaking the ice. Your female friend will be able to get up, go get the one you want to meet, and bring her right back to you. She'll be able to get the conversation started and make you look like a good guy.

It works for me - I hang at a local bar and know the staff, owner and all the regulars. It works. You'll end up with lots of attention and you'll be able to sharpen your skills at talking with and being around women. Once you get comfortable enough to banter around and joke with them, you'll do fine. Be sure to chat up all of them, even some fiftyish barfly will help you get the confidence to talk to anyone.

 

[sachu]

kirosia,

been there and know how it feels to not being able to walk up to a girl and tell her how you feel. I had this thing for a girl for years..never had the heart to go up to here and tell her how i felt. I know things could have been different if I had taken initiative. I too was insecure at the time and held back. Take initiative, the worst that could happen is you go your separate ways which is what would probably happen if you never went up to her.

That said, sir listen to this and trip out a bit.