I appreciate your approach... But I know exactly what I wantI do not want to be blown away by my phones or so... I want them to perform like I hear the music in a real world. My ears are flawed when listening to the sounds of reality (they are not perceiving neutrally) but if I get a neutral setup, I am going to hear my music in the same way. It's not perfect perfect neutrality (this does not exist) but it's perfect neutrality to my ears as I hear it from my cans like I hear it in reality.
Then i think u need cans like the akg k702..good cans! as i understand they are the utmost what u can get in neutrality..and transparancy..and detail...never listened to them though..but what i heared from friends is that they are as neutral as u can get..but no bass.
.ps..i do understand u..i have a friend who is a senior engineer in electronics at philips..and he says same things how u explain it..and he is my best friend..and i never wanna change his opinions never..no matter if his opinion is based on physical thingies or taste..
Try the akg's maybe u will be surprised...am going to bed..u guys have fun..dont forget..we are all here as mates..we all want the same at the end..listening to music in the best way WE THINK and feel can be..its 4:22 am..am going to bed..enjoy ur night/day/morning/afternoon!