Yeah, these slam/impact things are quite YMMV, and no, I wasn't saying that about the 650! Might have had a few vodkas!
The genres you listen to have a tremendous impact, along with my personal annoyances about some genres, which bring the 400i down more. The 650 is more forgiving in a broader sense.
Lucky you, it might be that I've have too few
To me the forgiving nature of the HD650 makes them a bit unengaging with some music but then again I typically like headphones with a bit more attack. For reference I prefer the upper frequency presentation on the HE400i over that on the HD650 by quite some margin, again different strokes for different folks.
Although I find the HD650 to have a extremely good midrange presentation I'm having a hard time with some of the bold statements about them in here, the roll off in both ends really limit their usage for me. I do like them a lot though