AC1
500+ Head-Fier
- Joined
- Sep 14, 2001
- Posts
- 795
- Likes
- 11
I am telling this story because this is probably the creepiest guy I have ever encountered. Now I have met a lot of sleezy guys, but this one pretty much takes the cake and pushes into the creepy territory.
This is something that happened at a co-workers house warming party yesterday where it was generally an older 40+ crowd. Also interesting (for me) was another revelation. The hostess (my co-worker) has her own team which of course came to the party, but they along with me were probably the youngest people there, being in the 25-30 range.
Now the people from the hostess' team that came were her assistant and a CS (customer service) person which I have had drinks with before etc and where they came to the house warming together. Well one interesting thing that was revealed was that the CS person brought her girlfriend. This was not a complete shock or anything since people have mentioned it before, but I never really paid attention to it or cared that much about it, but it answered a few questions I guess. The girlfriend was actually pretty cool, she was polish and spoke it fluently.
Ok onto the rest of the story. So this one guy, looked early 40ish, skinny, conservative looking, that was hanging around them. After the girls had had a few drinks, he laid on his interest thick. He first talked to the CS person's girlfriend for a minute, didn't hear that convo. Then he talked to the CS person and said something like, if you like wine you should come back to my place for a drink. This was after maybe having talked to her for total of a minute. Of course she said, sorry I am already going home with her (girlfriend). His response was something like oh, well I hope you have room for one more. Nice. Right after that he moved onto the assistant which later on we find out he was infatuated with. First thing we were talking about was how to pronounce the assistants name since it could have a lot of variations of it and then it went to how much he liked her boots which was part of his fascination apparently. To get her # he took out a business card and wrote her name phonetically and wrote in an area code so she would have to fill in the rest of her #. Smooth.
Now here is the creepy part of the matter. Since this guys family knows the host's husband, he had brought his mom and a friend. After the girls came to the party, he apparently sent his mom and friend home! He also fully admitted to the hostess that he sent them home because the girls came and he was very interested in the assistant and how good she looked in the boots. Bwaahahaha. I was like wow, that is the creepiest thing I have ever heard. I am ok with sleazy guys, but this really pushes it into the creepy territory. The hostess had actually warned her team about this guy and to watch out for him, so they did know what was up, even though it was already obvious enough. This guy totally lived up to his rep.
Here is my take on what this guy did. I have to say that being this direct could work in certain situations. Usually in a club\resort\bar or something where there is a vibe to hook up. Now doing it at some friends party and being this direct without even making a connection with the person (or really not setting anything up for someone to be receptive to this) just makes you look sleezy . He went right into it not having talked to them for over a minute. He also did not have the look/personality to back up being this direct. If you are going to do something like this you really have to have a persona to back this up or you are going to come off looking sleezy and at worst creepy to girls.
I did not stay there that long to see what other things happened. But what was interesting was the the CS persons girlfriend really wanted me to hang out with them some more after the house warming. I didn't even think that I was being particularly entertaining or all that interesting to them. I was just vibing with her and finding out about her interesting past, well I guess that is the difference between making a connection and not, where just simple vibing can get you somewhere.
I also saw an old co-worker where I did a little networking since she has hook-ups to get theater show tickets at the new auditorium that was built here in OC. Overall it was pretty entertaining night.
This is something that happened at a co-workers house warming party yesterday where it was generally an older 40+ crowd. Also interesting (for me) was another revelation. The hostess (my co-worker) has her own team which of course came to the party, but they along with me were probably the youngest people there, being in the 25-30 range.
Now the people from the hostess' team that came were her assistant and a CS (customer service) person which I have had drinks with before etc and where they came to the house warming together. Well one interesting thing that was revealed was that the CS person brought her girlfriend. This was not a complete shock or anything since people have mentioned it before, but I never really paid attention to it or cared that much about it, but it answered a few questions I guess. The girlfriend was actually pretty cool, she was polish and spoke it fluently.
Ok onto the rest of the story. So this one guy, looked early 40ish, skinny, conservative looking, that was hanging around them. After the girls had had a few drinks, he laid on his interest thick. He first talked to the CS person's girlfriend for a minute, didn't hear that convo. Then he talked to the CS person and said something like, if you like wine you should come back to my place for a drink. This was after maybe having talked to her for total of a minute. Of course she said, sorry I am already going home with her (girlfriend). His response was something like oh, well I hope you have room for one more. Nice. Right after that he moved onto the assistant which later on we find out he was infatuated with. First thing we were talking about was how to pronounce the assistants name since it could have a lot of variations of it and then it went to how much he liked her boots which was part of his fascination apparently. To get her # he took out a business card and wrote her name phonetically and wrote in an area code so she would have to fill in the rest of her #. Smooth.
Now here is the creepy part of the matter. Since this guys family knows the host's husband, he had brought his mom and a friend. After the girls came to the party, he apparently sent his mom and friend home! He also fully admitted to the hostess that he sent them home because the girls came and he was very interested in the assistant and how good she looked in the boots. Bwaahahaha. I was like wow, that is the creepiest thing I have ever heard. I am ok with sleazy guys, but this really pushes it into the creepy territory. The hostess had actually warned her team about this guy and to watch out for him, so they did know what was up, even though it was already obvious enough. This guy totally lived up to his rep.
Here is my take on what this guy did. I have to say that being this direct could work in certain situations. Usually in a club\resort\bar or something where there is a vibe to hook up. Now doing it at some friends party and being this direct without even making a connection with the person (or really not setting anything up for someone to be receptive to this) just makes you look sleezy . He went right into it not having talked to them for over a minute. He also did not have the look/personality to back up being this direct. If you are going to do something like this you really have to have a persona to back this up or you are going to come off looking sleezy and at worst creepy to girls.
I did not stay there that long to see what other things happened. But what was interesting was the the CS persons girlfriend really wanted me to hang out with them some more after the house warming. I didn't even think that I was being particularly entertaining or all that interesting to them. I was just vibing with her and finding out about her interesting past, well I guess that is the difference between making a connection and not, where just simple vibing can get you somewhere.
I also saw an old co-worker where I did a little networking since she has hook-ups to get theater show tickets at the new auditorium that was built here in OC. Overall it was pretty entertaining night.
