Hi George/Skerry
There are a lot of IEMs out there in a very wide price range. Although obviously your priorities are/should be elsewhere I'm sorry you're about to give up on your quest now that you have come this far. Therefore I’d like to offer you help.
Some people on this thread like @tgx78 and @LuckyNat have already indicated that the Flare Audio R2 series might be the IEMs you're looking for - and even within a tight budget if you’d purchase them as a used pair - and I tend to believe they are right, the R2.x will probably tick all your boxes. In my opinion you should take the opportunity to have a listen to them before you close this thread.
I’m willing to send you my pair of Flare Audio R2A’s as a loaner - free of charge for 1 month - so you'll be able to decide whether you like them or not (all reversible mods allowed) and return them to me, no deposit required, just flat rate postage is on you. I happen to own both R2A and R2Pro and in the event you have come to the conclusion that you like the R2A’s signature I'd be willing to send you the R2Pro's after that on the same conditions as well.
There's one catch though………
As you may have noticed a few people have been very busy trying to get a European Headphone Temporary Trading Club (thread) of the ground from scratch (@customcoco , @Moriez , @Beyakusenn and others) . I’d like to draw some attention to the thread
http://www.head-fi.org/t/765079/european-headphone-temporary-trading-club-wanna-try-cans-for-almost-nothing-read-the-first-post
http://www.head-fi.org/t/779369/european-headphone-temporary-trading-club-wanna-try-cans-for-almost-nothing-read-the-first-post
so the only thing I’m asking in return is for you to join the European Headphone Temporary Trading Club as a member and if you agree I’ll put the R2A in that thread for you (technically it wouldn’t be a trade but hey
) and we'll take it from there.
Sounds good?