I wouldn't be annoyed except that I paid via paypal and he has my money.
Having been in small business since '78 I started laying out all the potential scenarios here including the Drs possible bad heath. I have no idea how old he is is but it's apparent he's gotten a lot of his knowledge over time so he's not an 18yo kid. That's the possible good excuse.
It's the inherent potential for abuse thats very apparent to me when someone prepays and has a limited time to act on any recovery options. There's not a whole lot of incentive for a vendor of any sort to perform. As potential customers we can't even look at an ebay feedback.
I own a video store and have for close to 30 years now. Once we have extended a lot of credit to a customer and a customer gets a high balance, their credit card usually doesn't work and we have a hard time getting our money. When my store extends a lot of credit, the customer often seems to act like he's too upside down in his car loan and the account often "goes south". The customer may eventually pay up but since we don't charge interest we are still out money plus aggrevation plus the loss of the customer. Prepaid customers, as a group, are like my store.
I should have given the site a credit card. I would have had no worries that way. I have to say, this is my fault.
I should slap myself for paying via paypal. By reading this thread beforehand I suppose I thought I might have an edge over charge card people when it came to communication and delivery. When a customer of mine has prepaid I take care of them first.
I sent a notice to him 10 hours ago requesting cancellation of my order as I mentioned earlier. I will also initiate a refund via paypal as well this morning.
If and when one is available and I'm interested I might buy one.
*slaps himself*