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Originally Posted by Spareribs /img/forum/go_quote.gif
Why not adjust to an asexual lifestyle?
I know a guy who became an asexual after his divorce and he likes it. (No, it's not me) Sure it's a little lonely at times but there are advantages too. He loves to travel and he gets to make his own decisions and he enjoys it. I'm not asexaul but since I'm an ugly guy, it was difficult for me to get girls. So for a while, I also went on vacations alone and I have to admit, it was a lot fun. It is possible to get used to being alone, IMO.
Living an asexual lifestyle isn't too bad once you adjust to it. There are advantages.
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Thats pretty much me to a Tee, as well.
I'm a good looking guy (or so my mommy says =), who is fit, materialistic, all the junk women enjoy. Never really had women problems, or getting them. (not trying to toot my own horn).
But one day, after a relationship ended, I became that description.
I have been like this for a good three or so years, and for the most part, I love it. Of course you get the "I'm so lonely, someone love me" syndrome every once in a while, but I just end up thinking, why I do it, which is:
Saving up money
Knowing I will not be single all my life, you might as well enjoy it when you can.
Freedom, to the power of 100. Go anywhere, be anyone, do anyone (I mean anything).
Find yourself, and discover what you want to be. You are your own boss, all the time.
I still talk women up, hit on the hot ones, and when I am out with friends, or pals from work, their wives or girlfriends, assume I am spoken for, or surprised I have no love in my life. Of course, how long do I want it to last? And do I become so "alone", that I am saying this when I am 30, 35, 40, 50 and then dead??? (I am 24 now). Time will tell, but I think its coming soon, just based on what I have done or want to do I guess