I have been with Mrs. Maggotbrain (though, in the spirit of the macabre name it should the Bride of MaggotBrain like a horror movie title) for twenty three years. What I always do is budget twice the amount of whatever toy I want (and wait till my birthday or Christmas), and treat her with the other half. what is funny is that the time I budgeted for the Stax setup last year, I treated our family on a trip to Tokyo. Mrs, Maggot loves loves loves Disneyland- it is her favorite place to go (and of course, for those of us who delight in relaxing, soothing a sounds Disneyland has to be the first thing to come to mind) I have been on some Disney trip for the better part of twenty years, and sold her on Tokyo Disneyland. Tokyo Disneyland turns out to be her favorite Disneyland, because unlike other Disneylands everybody is polite and it it isn't as noisy and the food is actually good. Now comes the part where I am rubbing my hands together in glee, because anyone who has every been to Tokyo knows that has Disneyland but also the Disneyland of all things electronics - the Akihabara district. it was my mission to somehow, someway get to the e-earphone store. I get there and am hopelessly lost, as there are no addresses anywhere and I think the store is on the fourth of fifth floor of some office building. I had only a limited amount of time because my wife's high school buddy lived in Tokyo and we had reservations to see her and her family, so I was feverishly asking anybody in any shop I could find how there. I talk to a manga artist, then a to a electronic train salesman, then finally a guy selling swords directed me to store. I honestly thought I would find a better headphone I had at the time, Tried the Sennheiser 800 (like the White Stripes - no bass!), fostex th900 (whose garish laquer cups make our Abyss look fashionable by comparison), and the sounding pretty good (equivalent the ultrasound 8 at over twice the weight) but large-cranium-crushing Audeze headphones. Crestfallen, I check out the portable amps, which led to the Oppo Ha-2 (then Chord Hugo and then in a roundabout way to Abyss in the months to come). Anyway, this little policy led to one our favorite trips ever. I leaned in my chemistry classes that every reaction must have an equal and opposite reaction. So I figure if I balance treats for me with treats for her then all is good. Of course, I still get "how many headphones do you need, you only have one head" - which is tough to argue with, anatomically speaking. Which is why I eventually ended up with the Abyss, because like Mrs. MaggotBrain, you don't need anything better than perfect.