it's difficult for everybody. someone who's known to own TOTL gears and the latest stuff, will inevitably get used to have everybody rely on him to know everything about gears. because we all crave information on new and cool toys. that does give the owners a big head, no matter how humble and honest they try to be. so now you have that person used to talking to people who trust everything he says about gears, coming here in Sound Science... a place where without some supporting evidence, his claims are instantly turned down(no matter if correct or not). it's going to be really hard for that person to stay gracious and handle this with calm and method. he's not used to this environment and general notion of accountability. in most audio forums, when 2 people claim stupid opposite stuff, they end it with "agree to disagree" and they'll keep saying the same stuff in another page the next day like nothing happened.
now for the people who are in here expecting strict reasoning and fact based interpretations which are the foundations of any scientific approach. they are almost constantly talking to newcomers who post an argument that could be summarized as "my subjective impression is this, therefore this device does this objective stuff". and of course for people who are overly conscious about the difference between subjective reality and objective reality, most of those arguments have for us the legitimacy of the stuff you read from the flat earther websites. in my case, I would love this section to be what you describe, and my quasi-modo hat also makes me work toward getting a nicer environment. but at the same time, I spend a lot of time reading posts and thinking "how do I begin to explain how wrong this is when the guy obviously misunderstands the most basic concept about this world? and that despite objective and subjective being terms thrown at everything all day long in the hobby". depending on how the person will react to the warnings or doubts about his claims, it's going to be hard for some of the people in here not to think the guy is a troll or a complete moron, and get respectively angry replies, or replies along the lines of "you know nothing Jon Snow".
and that happens on a daily basis, because audiophiles are way too happy to go from "my experience is what matters to me"(perfectly rational approach, I follow it everyday), to "my experience is what matters", and then to "my experience is reality". the result of that fallacy is a diarrhea of objective empty claims pretending to justify random feelings and ideas. and that makes a lot of people in here very mad because they happen to care dearly for truth and reason.
how do you mix those people together without expecting a clash and some hurt ego doing most of the talking? I honestly don't know. it's like 2 distant civilizations meeting and taking most of what is normal for one side, as an open aggression for the other.
- yes if people in here could totally stop getting mad when reading nonsense, and turning a topic into a personal assault on the person who knows so little he doesn't even see what's wrong with his actions. if they could all stay cool, fully respectful pedagogues the battle would most likely stop. but what are the odds of everybody in here becoming a skilled pedagogue instead of just your average audiophile? I for one know very well how much I suck at keeping my calm and placing myself at the level of my interlocutor. it's a skill and not everybody has it.
- and yes if people posting in this section could be kind enough not to make claims they cannot support, and mistake subjective stuff with objective reality, we'd have very little to get mad about and that too would most likely be the end of personal attacks and feelings of aggression. but what are the odds of that happening in an audio forum? I'd expect 0% as a fairly accurate value.
so it's easy to blame the side we're not on and wait for them to fix the problem. but it's never going to happen. on the other hand, we all can try a little harder to solve our side of the problem instead of always raging about how it's the other's fault. personal attacks are never constructive, so let's try proof reading our posts and getting rid of that before sending it. empty claims are nothing burgers that prove nothing but will anger many people, be it for what is claimed or for the way it toys with facts and logic. so let's also try to proof read our posts and when things are unclear, try to reword them so they look more like opinions or hypotheses which they probably are. and if the claim seems legit, then go google some paper or some other demonstration to support the claim so it's no longer some BS empty claim.
it's a collegial effort, and probably the only chance for this section to become what it should always have been. the other option could be getting specific posting rules, which will most likely never happen for various very legitimate reasons. so I'm inclined to ask everybody to work on my first solution where everybody starts making the section a better place simply by paying more attention to what he's posting in it. I could keep my time moderating more strictly, but that would ultimately lead to several people banned and no real improvement on the quality of the content in the forum. part of how and why I ended up modo of this section is because I didn't believe that bans for personal attacks were helping the section in any way. we just kept losing those with knowledge along with the arrogant little ****s, so I'm really not in a hurry to resort to doing it. you guys make the content of this section, the secret to improving that content is in you all(this is so cheesy I just imagined myself in a Santa costume).