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i still feel uneasy. if i contact the police, there isnt anything they can do now, right? |
Are you sure you're not blowing this whole thing just a little out of proportion. I hate to disagree with the lynch mob, but, without hearing the other person's side of the story, I don't think it's really fair for everyone to so eagerly get out the torches and pitchforks.
I'm not saying you don't have a reason to be upset, but on the same token, none of us know what sort of communications went on prior to all of this. Had you promised you would ship it sooner than 5 days? Did you keep him informed of the delays in sending it out? And really, although you're telling us you were going to send them out that day, neither the buyer, or any of us for that matter, knew or know that that is indeed a fact. Perhaps you might have wound up with another "problem" getting to the post office that day as well. Again, none of us know that. The buyer certainly wouldn't have.
I'm not calling you a liar by the way, just trying to say there are two or three sides to every story. In all fairness, in most cases people feel that 5 days to get to the post office ...
unless specifically discussed and agreed upon ( and again, even on the 5th day, the package was not yet in the mail) I think 2 or 3 days after receiving someone's money is a more generally acceptable length of time to expect the item to be on it's way.
And of course people are and should be wary of fraudsters on the net. This person doesn't know you....all they know is that you've had their money for 5 days and you had yet to take the package to the post office.
Again, I don't mean to offend or accuse, but I don't think it's right for everyone to convict this other person of some sort of crime, without at least hearing their side of the story.
From what you've told us, this person did nothing illegal. Sitting in their car or spending 10 minutes opening and looking at the product they just received, isn't against the law. Was anyone threatened with physical violence? Was this person standing on the street yelling obscenities at you? What did he do to your mom or sister that made them so fearful? All I'm reading is that he asked if a package had been sent out. Reading your first post, it comes across to me that you yourself came on rather aggressively BOTH times you called him on the phone.
And you are even now considering calling the police? What makes you think you are in some sort of danger at this point?