Personally while I have not bought an HP this expensive I have been an early adopter for several headphones. In all my early purchases I accepted the risk of being an early adopter including looking money when the HP in question quite often dropped in price or people were not happy with the product. I own both of Sony's last high end headphone (MDR-7R) and IEM (XBA-Z5) and knew within a month that would loose a TON of money reselling them. Never once did I assume it was the responsibility of the manufacturer. Sure Jewish they marketed them better or in the case of the Z5 didn't give up so quickly and yes I may hesitate to drink the cool aid quite so quickly the next time. But I was the one who bought the product and nobody was twisting my arm but me.
You said it yourself, you haven't tasted the expensive cool aid. You appear to blame those that purchase an expensive headphone and have problems, instead the manufacturer needs to step up. In this century, at these prices, why let them off the hook. Hifiman needs to own responsibility for their products, with the expected price
points. Their reputation depends on it! Items should be priced on value, not hype!