dontfeedphils
1000+ Head-Fier
No offense was meant or taken.
It’s print, the nuance isn’t there. I didn’t say it was nor am I accusing you, I’m saying let’s be sure we don’t. I like headfi when it’s fun and informative discussion. I’ve never been a fan of being mean or making someone else look or feel stupid, bad whaterever and I see people talk like that here sometimes.
So I’d like to express to all my feelings on this topic and I apologize in advance for taking this thread to say this.
Nothing I ever say should be taken as a hurtful thing. It will never be meant that way. This is my promise to you all as members of the same hobby, forum and community. I may try to provoke thought but never in a derogatory fashion. I’m not a good dancer, I speak directly because I’ve always spoken directly, I don’t know how to speak indirectly.
When we visit the in-laws in China, I often don’t speak more than ni hao or tell the server what I want to drink or eat. It’s because my direct nature is something they don’t get, it actually frightens them a bit. I also don’t get their dancing around topics and not speaking direct to the subject. I think my in-laws are cool. Our politics aren’t even that different. They love how I drive, I hate how they drive, it’s awesome! I think we live in times where a taste of kindness can go a long way to making someone’s day. If I say something that takes that away from you, tell me, we’ll both benefit from that kind of conversation.
FWIW, I appreciate you taking the time to expound on this a bit, as I've probably taken things you've said in the wrong way before.