I think your concerns are more than reasonable. What you said is true. I understand your frustration.
The thing is, nowadays people completely misuse the term "burn-in". 95% of the time they are talking about "break-in", which refers to the physical change of something that alters the sound performance (e.g. the driver in headphones). I don't know whether there are any measurements of that, but I guarantee you that it is real, at least with headphones. I have two pairs of the iBasso SR2. One that I've used for some time, and another one that has less than 1h of playtime. The two sound different.
However, 99% of the people talking about burn-in only have a single device, which is.... yeah. I cannot trust someone's ears to remember the sound of something from weeks, months, years ago. I think it is necessary to have two devices that sound the same. Once you have that, you can start using one and after X amount of time compare the two. Of course, I don't expect normal consumers to purchase two products just for the sake of proving their point.
The frustrating part is when you yourself cannot tell the difference and there is no scientific backing up to "convince" you that it's legit. As a big skeptic myself, I would never believe the "mambo-jambo", so I get where you are coming from. There's too much of it, plus, people act like you should trust them... Like you said, they get aggressive when you ask for facts and science — if I were in their position, I would just respectfully agree that what I'm talking about is highly subjective and that I cannot scientifically prove it. Also, to clarify, I don't know who got aggressive with you and what I have written is not personally directed at anyone! It's just a general observation and my opinion.
I am actually wondering why nobody tried to do a scientific test to find out whether break-in is real. I'm specifically talking about headphones, amps, and DACs. It's not something that's hard to do. Especially when you got the resources to do it. But, for example, if you were to do a scientific test for headphones, you would need to measure both sets and make sure they have the "same" FR curve beforehand (of course, both sets completely new). Once you confirm that, you would use the other pair for some weeks, and then you would come back and measure it.
Something I think about often when burn-in is mentioned, especially when very subjective things are mentioned (e.g. soundstage, imaging, separation) is "wouldn't these factors alter the FR?". If you think about it, if one element is closer/further away, it is more/less present. Therefore, shouldn't it directly affect the frequency response?
While I was early into this hobby, I was skeptical that amps alter sound. I was skeptical that DACs alter sound. Damn, when my friend told me that microSD cards altered sound, I questioned the whole hobby... I thought to myself "Are these people insane" A SD card altering sound??". However, you live and learn. Now, I notice a difference in sound in all of these. Don't forget, I'm an extreme skeptic, so if I don't actually and genuinely hear something, I cannot believe it.
The microSD card thing, I had a DX300 with a Micron microSD card. Same files. Extremely quick A/B testing between internal memory and the microSD card, I noticed a difference each time. If it weren't for that irl experience, I would've never believe anyone that this was possible or genuine. ALSO: it is very, very important that you approach things like that with no bias. You must experience them neutrally or otherwise you will hear what you want to hear =) Prejudice will lead you nowhere.
Valid A/B testing is the only way you can genuinely hear a difference in something if you are a skeptic like myself. The key part is "valid". If I have a single device and I've been using it for some time, how the hell am I going to
reliably remember how it sounded like X time ago? These sorts of concerns are very real and very valid.
There's a lot of nice and respectful people here. I would actually say the majority. For example,
@Whitigir always looks for a legit way to back up his observations in great depth, which is something I greatly respect. He also never tries to convince others about his observations (e.g. when he mentioned microSD cards affecting sound, he put a disclaimer to disregard what he wrote if that's something you don't believe in). However, some people cannot tolerate being confronted when it comes to subjective things with no scientific or other sort of reliable backing up. I know there is no way you can convince me to believe someone's ears to have
reliable memory for weeks, months, years.
@horatiu the only advice I can give you is not to try to confront these people and convince them to agree with you. It's impossible, it will not happen. Just make sure that you yourself are sane and that your concerns are valid. Trust
your ears, enjoy what
you are listening to, have
your beliefs. Anything other than that is a waste of your time & energy, trust me. I've been there.
Now, let's get back to discussing the DX320