"So headfi I have been gone for a while but come seeking advice. I am going into next year a senior in high school. I have had straight a's in honors and ap courses, and am pretty high up in class rank (top 5% don't know specifics). I got a 32 on my act. From what I have been told I can go pretty much wherever I want. (Can anyone verify this?)"
while that is true in most cases, colleges can be extremely odd when it comes to admissions. the third ranked guy from my high school got into none of the colleges he applied to except for harvard and a state school to which pretty much everyone is allowed to attend. the same year some guy that no one knew got into duke when my friend (the rank 3 guy) didnt get in. i myself didnt get into a few schools that i thought i was a shoe in for but i got into schools that i had absolutely no hope for. my advice - apply to as many schools as you can financially afford to (the application fees can add up pretty fast as it varies from $30 for state schools and $75 for elite private institutions). since you have a great record in high school already, apply to a few schools that you know you will get in without any problems, apply to a few that you would like to go to, and then apply to a few that you would dream of going to given the chance. i dont believe in the fact that mit or those patzers across the river at harvard only take geniuses. my roommate sophomore year had a sat score of 1180 but he had other things to offer. basically, you wont know if a college wants you or not unless you apply. so just fill out as many applications as you can. spend a good amount of time on your essays. look at previous year's applications. you will find that there are always 2 topics that are repeated every year. start planning out a few initial drafts for each topic and see which one turns out to be the most interesting. recommendation letters - these go a LONG way so ask a lot of teachers who like you to write for you. ask them if you can see the letter before you send them in case you would like them to include something they didnt or stress upon a certain activity you took part in a lot during high school. get an early start on these things and send in your applications early if you can. you will thank me later when you are sitting relaxing in your room listening to toones while your classmates are starting to panic over deadlines and what not.
"I am looking to become an Emergency Room doctor or anesthesiologist (if you have any other recommendations, please say so)."
dont take this the wrong way but it is just an observation i have made along the years. in high school i did fairly well for myself and got admitted to a pretty good school. my dad being an engineer wanted me to follow in his footsteps and my mum wanted me to be a doctor. both had their reasons but the most important one for them was financial security. yes, i believe that money is the most powerful thing in the world. it is with money that you can buy all these awesome amps and headphones not principles. BUT i didnt care for their wishes, i still dont. i didnt care for money at the time and started with a bachelors in computer science. 3 days into the program i went to the college of science and asked them if i could join the mathematics dept. a week and a few signed sheets later i was a mathematics student. i have never been happier. find something you love to do and you WILL find a way to be successful at it. if it is med school then so be it but dont make that decision right now because you see the good life that other doctors lead. what most people dont see are the 30+ hours emergency room physicians have to work a lot of the time. they dont see the amount of effort it takes to get through med school but only the sweet pleasures of life these accomplished people enjoy after they are done. again, i am not saying that you are going to be any different from the next amazing doctor, just that dont pick a major under false pretenses. even if you do, it is never too late to change. my grandpa was an engineering major until his last semester of his university and then suddenly decided to take organic chemistry his last semester and took the mcats and became a doctor. it does not reflect as a poor decision making ability or the fact that you dont know what to do with your life but only that you know how to figure out what you arent going to be happy doing for quite a while. my advice - do a LOT of reading before you pick a major or even start filling out applications. in high school i figured that it would be about 12 years before i even thought of starting to work (4 years for bachelors, 2 for masters, 5 for my doctorate) and i was perfectly fine with that. my sister is planning on staying in school for roughly 14 years and i respect her decision to do that. but i highly doubt that she will continue with the same resolve if she is doing it only for the money. medicine is a very noble profession and a highly paying on at that. just realise that there isnt anything wrong with being an engineer or a scientist or a professional race car driver either.
"I am currently in Illinois and am looking for colleges. I am looking to go somewhere warm hopefully."
are you a resident of the state of illinois or california? state tuition only applies when you reside in the same state as the person you are dependent on. i am declared as one in my dads income tax returns so i qualify for in state tuition in florida only. i have been in mass. for 4 years now but since i am still a dependent of my dad i dont qualify for in state tuition for mass.
"I lived in San Diego for 2 years and loved it, and apparently UCLA and UCSD have great medical programs. So the question really is where should I go and how should I do things. Should I go to a college around UCLA for premed, and then go into UCLA at in-state tuition? Any advice would be greatly appreciated."
see above for questions regarding in state tuition. just because you want to go to med school at ucla does not require that you go for your pre med there as well. rather it is usually suggested that you go to graduate school some place other than where you get your bachelors from. i would recommend doing the same. talk to your peers who have the same interests as you. talk to people who are in the same profession as you hope to join some day. call up individual colleges and ask for numbers or emails of their student representatives and talk to the people who actually go there. it will be more help than any brochure you will ever read.
hope i helped. if you have any other questions feel free to pm me and good luck with everything