With confusing the receiver im not pointing to jitter but the receiver mistaking 1's for 0's or visa versa cause of the longer 'light on' times due to overlap of the strands light pulse arrivals.
The difference in maximum potential (i.e. worst-case-scenario) signal ToF differential within a multi-strand cable is insufficient to cause this. The typical scenario is an order of magnitude better than that. It also does not meaningfully change from a single-strand cable vs. multi-stand - assuming similar aggregate fiber diameter and materials. Typically multi-strand fibers are clad, which dramatically improves their RI vs. unclad, further reducing the potential delta.
In practical implementations, it just doesn't matter.
With higher sample rates the overall pulses time is shorter making the overlap error of longer on times more relevant. 192k seems to be on the edge of the tolerance
192 kHz is double the original sample rate for the TOSLINK spec. It is at the edges of tolerance because it needs 80ns pulses for the S/PDIF subframes, and the typical TOSLINK emitter/receiver has a rise/fall time of 30-40ns (which yields a 50% tolerance for a 96 kHz sample rate). For reliable discrimination you need the rise/fall time to be half (ideally less) of the pulse duration.
A marginal emitter/receiver (or a bad pairing - i.e. technically suitable devices, but each operating at the wrong ends of their performance tolerance/rating) may not rise/fall fast enough to maintain clean 80ns pulses. When this happens, the connection fails ... rather than 0s or 1s being misinterpreted.
You'll usually see more variation in the performance of a TOSLINK connection based on how well aligned and tolerance the sockets are than you will in the same connection using a multi-strand vs. single-strand cable.