the last one is the eletech baroque M. I tried it, but when I put it in my ear, I can feel that it is not the ideal shape. Rather, the eartips of that shape fit better than the w1, xelastec, s&s. Now that I think about it, these three are all different shapes... Who understands this...I've had enough...
Unfortunately, beyond immediate comparisons of physical dimensions and very generalised comments you really are on your own here.
Perhaps IEM are simply not for you if you can’t get them figured out to your satisfaction and within a listening session duration that suits and really have had enough.
I feel your frustration though, I have worked through similar scenarios a couple of times and have dozens of tips to show for it. It is perhaps telling that I no longer own either of the most problematic IEM.