micaela
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I think there is too much missing information here to give you good advice. We don't know what your relationship has been like in the past. How long have you been together? How old are you both? How seriously have you been involved - are you talking marriage - or do you just date exclusively for the fun of it? Has she ever given you reason not to trust her in the past? Was her dinner with this guy before or after she realized she really had a crush on him? I could see having dinner with someone rather innocently & then later deciding I kind of liked him. In what context did she tell you about this crush? If it was one of those "open, honest confession" type times/conversations that could be taken very differently than if she just out of the blue brought up the fact that she kind of likes this guy.
It just seems that in all fairness to both you & your girlfriend that there is a lot of missing info here that only you & she can fill in. Good luck to you both.
It just seems that in all fairness to both you & your girlfriend that there is a lot of missing info here that only you & she can fill in. Good luck to you both.