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emdeeveeCross-posting from the Eletech thread:
Hi everyone. I saw the above message from @dpeterfy32, clicked the link, paid him and now realize I made my biggest classifieds buying mistake to-date and wanted to warn everyone against dealing with this crook.
I paid this active head fier $1600 for his Ode To Laura cable through the classifieds after seeing the above post. He claimed he would send by EMS from Hungary to USA and $100 of the the price was for that. I specifically requested tracking which EMS, at $100, should provide. At the outset, based on our initial conversation, his feedback and his time on Head Fi, I made the unforgivable error of paying F&F via PayPal, something I will certainly not do again. So, just saying upfront, I accept the responsibility for how this will end, it's my bad.
Three days later, Feb 13, he said he sent the cable through Hungarian post (?) and that once the package was in the USA, I would receive an email with tracking info (?). I asked him for a receipt, tracking or any other proof of post, which he claimed he didn't have. I asked how we could track this without such but he was annoyed by the question, essentially telling me to be patient. I usually am, but proof of posting had been requested from the beginning without any substantive response.
So I waited and, considering he'd been an active member here, I tried not to worry. Well, a couple of weeks passed and I heard and received nothing. I DM'd him about this, and lucky him, he said he was on a 2 month vacation (!), but when he was back, he would check! I responded that wasn't acceptable.
I again told him he needed to provide me some proof of post with which I could verify shipment and follow up. He said he didn't have anything, was on vacation and couldn't do anything. To which I replied, "I can't wait for 2 months, get me that proof or refund my money". He said "I'm not a store, I don't give refunds" and "once I shipped the risk was on you". I replied "only if you can provide some proof that you actually shipped the cable".
Fast forward to today where I again reiterated my request for proof of post or a refund and told him his handling of the situation wasn't acceptable or reasonable. He responded that he had communicated with his post office and that the package was lost in transit but they were trying to locate it. He finished by saying that since Hungarian post lost it, he still does not owe me a refund. Again, I told him that was not true without proof of actual shipment. He never even sent a pic of the box, label, no receipt, nothing.
I will get, and deserve, castigstion for paying F&F. Stupid, I know, lesson learned! I just didn't think it would happen here! Anyway, I think it goes without saying, this user @dpeterfy32 is not to be trusted, has clearly been dishonest and should be banned from making any further sales on Head Fi unless and until he resolves this situation.
Always 2 sides to a story, but my and his DMs will prove mine and I am happy to show them to anyone interested.
Any other suggestions on what to do here? I won't die over this but it really shakes my faith in our community.
Man I'm sorry you have to deal with this!
Thanks for keeping us updated about a seller like this!