Magick Man
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I would disagree with saying that everyone has such an opportunity, but most indeed do. It's certainly better than in other countries (I say this coming from a country formerly in the Soviet block, opportunity was definitely the prime motivator for my family). And again, it is easier for some than others. Believing that anyone can accomplish anything just because they work hard and set their mind to it is naive, believing that doing so is the best strategy to success is pragmatic.
Ultimately those that have failed - whether by chance, inequality, or poor decision making - outnumber those that have succeeded. At that point you have to ask some questions about whether that kind of system is sustainable and what sorts of personal goals people should aspire to given their respective circumstances.
I never said they can accomplish anything, but they can achieve fulfillment. If a person doesn't change their habits and perspective, no amount of financial assistance will help.
Sorry to speak in anecdotes, but my cousin spends 8-10 hours online every day griping about rich people, the government, and the unfairness of "the system" (along with another 2-3 playing video games). I told him if he spent that time more constructively he'd be happier and see results. I even offered to go over his schedule and help him prioritize and work out some strategies (since I don't just hand out money to people). That didn't go over well. :rolleyes: The fact is, I'd secretly planned to help out anyone in my extended family, if they were willing to focus and work, but no one did, so they're still in the same place they were.