I will never get a pre-nup.
When I make a commitment, I'm going to keep it. Period.
I've learned a great deal from my parents. I've watched them go from having to rely on donations to being millionaires, not once, but twice. Our lives have been a financial and emotional rollercoaster that only stabilized the last five years I lived with them. Life has literaly thrown almost everything possible at them; permanent dibalitating illness, death, poverty, wealth, death of a young child, severe family strife, etc. Sure, there were times that were very, very difficult. They surely didn't have that good feeling inside about each other at times. But they got helped and worked through it. They just celebrated their 25th anniversary and they can honestly say that they not just love each other, but like each other as well. They are still each others best friends. For real. Their level of commitment is simply unbelievable.
When I promise my entire self to someone in marriage (and that's what you're doing), under no circumstances will I go back on that promise. I've seen so many people divorce over such trivial issues compared to what my parents have faced.
As I said earlier, I've learned many things from my parents, and perhaps most important is the simple virtue of perseverance in every aspect of life, marriage included.
Before I get married, I'm going to make damned sure my partner can keep the same level of commitment that I swear myself to when taking marriage vows. If she can't, I know she is not for me.
A pre-nup invalidates marriage. In a marriage, you are pledging your whole self to your spouse. A pre-nup makes you incapable of doing that. It's like saying "I promise you myself and my entire self, except for my house, computer, and portfolio".
I'd love to see statistics about how many couples with pre-nups make it to their 25th anniversary compared to those couples who didn't have them. I'd be willing to wager that the marriages without pre-nups would be much more successful long-term.
And by the way, If I can't find a woman I believe capable of keeping that kind of commitment, I simply won't get married. Sure, I wish to get married and start a family with all of my heart, but if I do it, I'm going to do it right.