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Headphoneus Supremus
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Thought some more. It's not nice guys who finish last, it's definitely guys with no self confidence. If you want something/someone, take a risk to try to get it. Want to go out with a girl? Ask her! She's probably as nervous and unsure of herself as you are, even if she looks calm and cool. If she blows you off she wasn't worth it to start with.'
Try this: go on holiday somewhere where no-one knows you, and be the person you want to be. For me this was confident, happy, and self assured. If you screw everything up no-one will know, and you'll have learned something at least.
I was the original nice guy, and at times in my life overweight. When I moved away I turned into the person I wanted to be, and from then on have had no problems with girls. The main problem I have is getting the pics of the old ones off my website so they don't get too jealous
Try this: go on holiday somewhere where no-one knows you, and be the person you want to be. For me this was confident, happy, and self assured. If you screw everything up no-one will know, and you'll have learned something at least.
I was the original nice guy, and at times in my life overweight. When I moved away I turned into the person I wanted to be, and from then on have had no problems with girls. The main problem I have is getting the pics of the old ones off my website so they don't get too jealous