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Originally posted by andrzejpw Well, I just got my check today for some work over the last 2 weeks. $330. That brings my balance to $1105. I can't do anything with it, but boy! Doesn't that look pretty! |
Originally posted by andrzejpw Well, I just got my check today for some work over the last 2 weeks. $330. That brings my balance to $1105. I can't do anything with it, but boy! Doesn't that look pretty! |
Not to be critical or anything, or sound mean, your Dad works his ass off for stuff, then he has to give it to other people. Support other people. He can't use all his money for taking care of himself then buying toys for himself. He spends his cash on you and your family. He NEEDS relief, time off, a hobby of his own. He NEEDS to have fun and relieve stress. Best thing to do is hope he co operates in what he does allow and enjoy life. |
Originally posted by jlo mein Well, i am 17 right now. |
Originally posted by MirandaX Face it, sooner or later you have to stop listening to your parents and start acting on your own. This includes taking responsibility for your own actions and their consequences. |
Originally posted by john_jcb There were many times when I said no to things. I always tried to explain my reasons and talk it through. There was not always agreement and I am sure they resented me for it at times. But I always had their best intrest in mind. From a young age I attempted to instill a value system in them. If a child does not have this foundation there is little chance they will make wise choices when given the opportunity. |
Originally posted by MirandaX Your post is well put, and I agree in spirit with most everything you've said. But your reasoning makes two assumptions: 1) parents have a decent value system of their own, 2) that value system (or one inspired by it) is appropriate for their children. |
Letting them stumble blindly about learning by their mistakes is not the way. |
Do you honestly think that his controlling attitude will change substantively next year when you turn 18? |