boomana
Headphoneus Supremus
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Neet, I'm guessing you're quite young, which is fine, but it sounds like you're confusing feelings with reality. Love isn't a feeling. It's an action or, rather, lots of actions, sometimes decades of actions, regardless of what you feel. Sometimes the feelings actually are pretty horrible, but that's also doesn't mean lack of love, even if it sometimes does. The feeling part comes and goes. You can make with it what you choose if you choose well. Music allows for all kinds of feelings (reactions again). It's easier because it's an immediate gratification thing, and always available. It's a quick hit, and guaranteed. If you're looking for that with love, you'll be disappointed. Asking people to choose between the two doesn't make sense at all.