Hi Danska!
Looks like the Sylvania tubes you have are the same type that I have. Since you have been an audiophile for a number of years we have to trust your ears, so the conclusion is that tubes will react differently to different equipment and sound differently.
Personally, I have no idea why some tubes produce a wider sound stage than others, and why some tubes have better sound than others. It is all trial and error, which makes it fun to try out different tubes and combinations of tubes. Nevertheless, I still think that it is possible to reach some kind of consensus on which tubes are among the best ones.
I have a set of two driver tubes that are great, but one is a re-branded tube, and all the markings are completely worn off on the other tube, so I don't even know what they are! I can guess who the manufacturers are by comparing the look to other known tubes, but it is still only a guess.
BTW, there is nothing wrong in putting in two different driver tubes, as long as the tubes are from the same family. You could A/B the tubes if you have a balance control in the system of L and R. Ideally you would try this with a good mono recording where you can switch each side to get the sound coming from both channels when you are listening.
Cables is a different can of worms, and I just stick to what I have, which are plain and inexpensive cables. Years ago I bought a power management outlet strip with various filters for the electrical noise, and it clearly improved the sound. The sound also can be improved with a dedicated line to your equipment, and by listening late at night, when there is less electrical interference from all kinds of motors and gadgets.