Okay so I discovered the reason why stock amp uses bipolar capacitor in the cathode position.
It is for better frequency response on the trebles end, so therefore a second "bypass cap" is not needed for the upper end, like what we have on first page.
Although is not verified here yet, it has been discussed elsewhere, on how a non-polarized can notice better tonality, when used in places like as a "coupling cap" (which of course we're not going to do.)
So in general, it is stated as being a bit better for tonality.
here is a statement by a manufacturer.
So anyways, we know that all ectrolytics have a weakness in the upper end trebles and details area, which is why we "bypass cap"(using the paralleled paper refa cap), but also why member copperfox noted tonality differences in details area, as he chose not to use a "bypass cap" on his lyctics.
So if not, then you have more tonality differences.
So I believe there were (three) multiple issues going on: tonality, dynamics, and detailing.
So since member copperfox is not using a any small "bypass cap" on his lyctic cathode caps (for even tonality), it was good choice for him instead select the nichion audio grade caps for his test to be more successful on tonality/detailing, and to use the smaller values in parallel for more dyamics.
Also, we read from member copperfox, that although 2x330uf did give the detailing, it did not give increased dynamics to the level of the other solutions.
This leads me to assume that going higher than multipled 220uf caps (paralleled) does not give more dynamics.
That was the only curious aspect that didn't work out as expected.
We can expect that the much higher single cap values (1000-2000uf) to not perform as well as the smaller multiple caps, and that a "single cap" solution should not be more than the 470uf observed by copperFox.
So with all this in mind, I decided to keep my 330uf and add the 220uf to it, as member copperfox optimally suggested.
The only difference is that I also decided to use non-polar since I am already using non-polar.
This can vary my results somewhat, but I expect it to be better regardless.
In order to keep the electrolytic caps as quality or audio grade as possible, I chose some kaisie 220uf caps.
Any differences in the tube harmonics from adding two different brand caps, would only add to the richness of the sound.
It's still a more optimal choice for richness, than cheaper solutions the other brands I discovered (using computer grade Nichicon cap).
It can swing both ways with good or bad quality choices.
I have also observed another manufacturer make an upgraded amp using higher grade caps, only to have a more sterile harder, darker, grittier sound!!
They were not nichicon audio caps, but instead a change from low-grade to mid-grade types. You will rarely see top grade caps even in $5000 amps.
So the point is, real world observation matters.
AudioNote kaisie caps are way more expensive for arguably little difference, but it is general concensus that they have good depth and tone.
The nichion caps have a general consensus of being more upfront clarity, while the silmic have the consensus of having detailed smoothness.
Being that these are all general consensus observations, they are to be taken lightly and not critically.
Bottom line, lots of things going on. Nothing is as simple as it seems when it comes to the variability of design choices.