Seeed are using CobaltMute's gerbers, so, yes, everything's on 0.1 centers. It worked for him, but I'm not sure what he had to do to make it work, if anything.
Yes, the ground placement on a Pimeta could be tight, but IMO there are workarounds. For one, you have a little wiggle room towards the middle of the board - around 4mm before you start running into the output film cap. (And even more room towards the back of the board, if you don't use Molex connectors for the power wires.) For another, I think the determined builder can get by with one cap per rail - Nichicon's HN or HZ series have 16v, 1000uF caps in a 10x16mm size, and there's even a 16v, 470uF cap in an 8x11.5 size. (On both of mine, I used a 10x20mm, 220uf Nichicon HE in each of the four positions, and am fairly confident I'm not lacking capacitance... )
Also, I suspect there is no real penalty for having the ground buffer here - any of the buffers, really - "floating" above the board, like a lot of the JISBOS installations in SOHA I amps have been done. People with really cramped cases might not have a lot of options, but folks building a "desktop" Pimeta should have enough room to figure out
something that will work for them.
Also, let's not forget - there
are uses for these buffers other than in a Pimeta.
How much more power do people really need? Aren't the BC devices good for something like 800mA of current and 500mW or so dissipation?