I have yet to see burn in do something drastic to tonality of dap. It can get a bit more spacious or controlled etc. But its never going to become something it wasnt made/tuned to be. I have not witnessed it ever.
If that was true. It would be dificult to manufacture dap with desired results.
Saying that you dont understand what tonality dap has unless you listen to it for 3 months is not daps problem.
Never seen manifacturer recommending burn in, and if they do its probably to make you miss your return window.
That said. I do agree it takes time to make review. Especially a useful one like say
@twister6 where he actually puts in decent amount work in comparing number similar products so you have solid picture of how it sounds if you own or have heard at least one of those products.
Can i ask what iems/cans you are using? Thanks