What you’ve described has been exactly my experience, albeit with the m-scaler in the Blu-2 into the DAVE. I’ve been reliably informed that the same issues exist with the Hugo m-scaler so I’ve not seen that as a remedy notwithstanding the introduction of internal ferrites.
I’ve tried myriad solutions, and ferrites, Wave cables (and carbon cables) do mitigate the issue but do not do remedy it altogether. I suspect that the Opto-DX would provide the best solution and have been watching this forum to see the user reports, which seem to have been favourable. Unfortunately, I cannot currently afford that unit and would ideally like to try it first but living in the UK this is not practical. Also, as you mention, having spent a large sum on the technology I’m rather miffed that I’d have to spend significantly more to overcome what I percieve as a very real problem.
I agree that the m-scaler technology does some things incredibly well and produces very real benefits such as increased depth, detail and soundstaging . Unfortunately, for me it giveth with one hand and taketh away with the other. It introduces high frequency hash into the DAVE in a clearly verifiable way. What Rob describes as slight I regard as significant such that it leads to listening fatigue. This is why he called me an “outlier” so I suppose I’m gratified that there are at least some others out there and it’s not my imagination. It my be down to a matter of personal taste and, as I’ve said, I really do wish I didn’t hear things that way. I just wanted to plug something into the DAVE that enhanced my listening pleasure and forget about it, which is what I consider Hi-Fi to be about.
I find it regrettable that some consider such views should be excluded simply because they don’t hear things that way.
I just find this hard to believe. I'd say its your setup more than the HMS.