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Oh the dreaded friend zone, thats where I don't want to end up with the girl I am interested in right now. She just broke up with her boyfriend on Friday so I have to give her a lot of down time but at the same time I don't want to end up in the friend zone in the mean time.
Originally Posted by mrplow /img/forum/go_quote.gif Laxx makes a really good point. The word "date" has so many connotations attached to it. Seriously, poll 50 random girls and ask them: Would you rather have a guy say: "Can I take you out sometime?" or "My friends and I go out running/salsa dancing/swimming/hiking/shopping/whatever Thursday nights. You should tag along. Bring some of your friends if you want." Now if you're worried that asking the latter will get you in the dreaded "friend" zone, don't worry. It took me a while to realize this but it's simple. If you act like her male friend, then you'll end up as one. If you don't, then you won't. It's simply knowing the distinction between affection (one way road to friend-zone) and attraction. |
Oh the dreaded friend zone, thats where I don't want to end up with the girl I am interested in right now. She just broke up with her boyfriend on Friday so I have to give her a lot of down time but at the same time I don't want to end up in the friend zone in the mean time.