Let me add a bit of perspective here.
Over the years, I've followed many sagas here on HF, where there was an initial hype train that ended up being debunked, for instance the whole Aurisonics, Tpeos, Altone lineups, Shure 846, Ditas, IE800 and many others. After the initial shine wore off and more balanced reviews came in, I thought to myself, glad I dodged that bullet...
And in the case of the DN2000J, we have many very well respected reviewers on BOTH sides of the fence. Folks whose I have followed over the years, sought advice from over PMs, people who are very balanced, candid and fair. If I didn't own them myself, as an outside observer I would say this is shaping up to be similar to some of the Tpeos debacles regarding piercing treble.
So why did I jump in on these? I'm coming from the 1plus2, which I love, but was looking for something cheaper, that I could use daily while out and about. On the subway, working out, etc. An everyday IEM I can use for everything. Also I had previous experience with the DN1000 which was pretty good for the price but found the DD wasn't fast enough and the treble was too shrill esp with female voices. And I was very impressed by the DN2000J. I must emphasize that the treble smooths out after 100 hours of burn in. I do not hear piercing shrill sibilence like I did with the DN1000. In fact I don't hear any at all, and I was specifically looking for it. I do not listen to them at quiet volume, but generally 65-70% on my Galaxy Note 4 with no problems.
Another thing I like about these are the ergonomics, I like the barrel design, it's comfy and I have no problem with fit. I like nondetachable cables for an everyday IEM. The build quality is solid.
I don't have a great explanation for why there is such heated debate over this IEM. I just know in my personal experience these are phenomenal and well worth the money. If I thought they were too harsh on the treble, I would sell them and get the DN2000, FLC8 or something else. But these are definitely keepers. The sound out of these is nimble, textured, fast and dynamic.
As a note, I am using them with bass rings, no spacers and either hybrids or spinfits. I personally found the sound to be a bit too intense and soundstage not as good with spiral dots and while with most IEMs I go for tips with as wide a bore as possible, with as short an overhang as possible (like the spiral dots), I found that these benefit from a slightly smaller bore and longer overhang. Maybe that's where folks are running into trouble.