Ha we are in a similar situation. A90 has been my daily driver, with Denafrips Ares II source. I received the soloist 3x last Monday. Bought it since I ve read many glowing reviews about it being a true high-end amp, more musical, more holographic etc.
Honestly after 10 days of trying, I will be returning the soloist. It definitely sounds different / adds color, but not a pleasant one to my ears. I totally agree with you on A90 having forward treble. Certain vocal sibilance and treble instruments can sound too bright. But this probably is more of a feature of the DTC instead of the amp since all measures clearly indicate the A90 being totally flat, so it simply amplifies without adding any color. Regardless, this (the sometime brightness) is also a key reason that I looked for something different.
However for me, the Soloist didn't make the sound overall better but instead made it worse. On normal mode, vocals sound too recessed (to the point of being dark), such that instruments began to dominate songs. I would rather have vocals being a little forward instead of instruments. Then I tried power amp mode and at first thought the problem was solved. However in power amp mode the bass is significantly boosted. This causes drums to feel super forwarded, bad enough to hurt my ears after only brief listening sessions. The only way to resolve the issue is to set an eq at 120hz for -3.5 to -4db. But then I feel what's the purpose of having this more expensive amp? Moreover a shelf at 120 really starts frequency changes at about 140-150, so would impact male vocals as well... moreover, no matter the bass, the soloist even on power amp mode still loses some vocal sparkle...
Basically I am not really hearing anything superior from the soloist... in fact without eq it either sounds terrible in normal mode, or hurts my ears in power amp mode. Will return, basically a hard pass for me. I just read some potential minor eq suggestions that would reduce A90 brightness, just tried earlier today, seems to be amazing change (removes brightness but no clearly audible changes to sparkle or clarity), but still too early, need to listen more to determine if the issues is solved. If it is, I really don't see the need for any different amp.