Aimless1
Headphoneus Supremus
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There have been so many threads lately of deals gone bad or scammers amongst us, that it make one think this is normal on Head-fi. I haven't found this to be true, even though I have had one less than satisfying experience.
My most recent experience is a deal that should have never happened....at least if you look at it on paper. The new member just joined this month. 0 posts. 0 feedback. Lots of ebay feedback, but how good is that, really? Then to complicate matters he needed the item shipped to a non paypal confirmed address and needed it in a hurry. I don't know about you, but I see many reasons for not completing a deal with this individual, especially for a $879.00 item.
But, he was quick to respond to questions. He was straightforward and appeared to be honest. The individual worked for an airline, had homes here and over seas. Had just received his orders that he was to fly out of New York (not his home) shortly and wanted the item to take with him. His explanations were much more convincing that I have written here. As he put it, one of us was going to have to take a huge leap of faith. Logically I was more than willing to walk away from the deal. But I trusted my gut and decided to go through with it.
I send a pay pal invoice understanding I have no protection shipping to a non confirmed address. When I receive the payment I see the confirmed address has been changed to his temporay address while in New York. So far so good. Then the amount I receive is for more than the amount agreed to. Seems he would like the item shipped overnight. He explains that he has included more to cover the cost. If too much, keep it and enjoy a beer. If not, then send an invoice for more $$ which he will cover. So I go to ship overnight and sure enough, not enough to cover the cost. I decide to ship and send an invoice for the additional.
Happy ending! He pays the additional and a little extra, receives the item overnight and is quite delighted with it. Lots of opportunity for the deal to go bad. Would I do it again? With him, yes. With someone else, probably not. But then again, I find most of the head-fiers I have had contact with and/or completed deals with have been good honest people looking to do the right thing. I believe this new head-fier is going to fit right in if he chooses to participate. This is a community of good people. Yes, we have some unsavory characters among us. Buth they are the exception, not the norm.
My most recent experience is a deal that should have never happened....at least if you look at it on paper. The new member just joined this month. 0 posts. 0 feedback. Lots of ebay feedback, but how good is that, really? Then to complicate matters he needed the item shipped to a non paypal confirmed address and needed it in a hurry. I don't know about you, but I see many reasons for not completing a deal with this individual, especially for a $879.00 item.
But, he was quick to respond to questions. He was straightforward and appeared to be honest. The individual worked for an airline, had homes here and over seas. Had just received his orders that he was to fly out of New York (not his home) shortly and wanted the item to take with him. His explanations were much more convincing that I have written here. As he put it, one of us was going to have to take a huge leap of faith. Logically I was more than willing to walk away from the deal. But I trusted my gut and decided to go through with it.
I send a pay pal invoice understanding I have no protection shipping to a non confirmed address. When I receive the payment I see the confirmed address has been changed to his temporay address while in New York. So far so good. Then the amount I receive is for more than the amount agreed to. Seems he would like the item shipped overnight. He explains that he has included more to cover the cost. If too much, keep it and enjoy a beer. If not, then send an invoice for more $$ which he will cover. So I go to ship overnight and sure enough, not enough to cover the cost. I decide to ship and send an invoice for the additional.
Happy ending! He pays the additional and a little extra, receives the item overnight and is quite delighted with it. Lots of opportunity for the deal to go bad. Would I do it again? With him, yes. With someone else, probably not. But then again, I find most of the head-fiers I have had contact with and/or completed deals with have been good honest people looking to do the right thing. I believe this new head-fier is going to fit right in if he chooses to participate. This is a community of good people. Yes, we have some unsavory characters among us. Buth they are the exception, not the norm.