For me, respect is earned, not given. You start out with a very flexible given amount (if you can make it a quantity), and it can skyrocket up or plummet down at an instant. It causes problems yes, but my friends are the most loyal people I know and there were never any ridiculous High School drama between us.
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My entire point is that it's pretty obvious to most clear headed people that Cables, if at all, should come last in ANY upgrade chain.
Even most "veterans of cables" state that they're overstating the differences of several cables in order to accentuate the differences between them.
Of course, looking at the ridiculous prices of some cables, only the rich (or incredibly stupid) can afford them or afford to try out many. Of course, they dough out their cash to find some nice shiny cables, and put them on to test them out. Naturally, they will sound the same or slightly different. Not better, just different. As they're expecting an improvement, they say that difference is an improvement, and then write on some threads stating their opinions.
Naturally, people being the sheep that they are, believe those guys. Of course, they have a whole list of gear, HD800, Stax, 50 different amps, Heir 8A, list goes on. They must be pros at audio right? So it gets spread around more and more. Just like people on Youtube saying "Oh My God! HD videos pwn my laptop speakers sound so much better with them."
A branch of the same tree is the MP3 vs FLAC argument. By now, most people know that one of the only advantages of FLAC is that it's compressible to other formats without heavy losses, unlike MP3. Sure, some people can tell them apart easily, but those are rare. But as they're so sensitive to sound, they're easily drawn into the world of Audiophilia and spend cash trying to perfect the sound, treating their unique ears. Their list of gear grows, so the power of their words becomes greater and others will believe the "Day and Night" difference between MP3.
All the meanwhile, repeated ABX threads show that although SOME people can INCONCLUSIVELY tell the difference between FLAC and MP3, there's quite a large possibility for guessing. Even the ones that can differentiate them can't say which one sounds "better". I'm not even going to start on the people that compare lossless files, they're hopeless.
Cables would be the same. The few cables that might actually make a difference, you're automatically inclined to think that's better so you throw your support behind it. If Silver was cheaper than Copper, and standard cables were Silver, Copper would become the optional upgrade and people would flock behind it praising it's impact on the sound.
Also, about people who use those $200 99.9999 Silver cables with "lower" end IEMs like TF-10 or etc, they're truly stupid.