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Originally posted by gloco
back on topic, i think that family.org site is absolutely insane and i feel bad that there's kids out there being raised with parents who follow that site and other parental guides that are as strongent as that one. |
Howdy, another Christian here, and usually I don't get involved in threads like this, because any arguments or mocking on the subject won't convince anyone of anything. However, I have to take a strong exception to something you said about kids being raised by parents who follow a lot of the principles that Focus on the Family lays out.
As someone who is going to be a father for the first time in a few months, and is also a Christian, this hits pretty close to home. I've seen kids in my church raised many different ways over the past 8-10 years, everything from families who raise their kids following a lot of what Dobson and his staff say over at FotF, and some who pretty much buy their kids whatever they want, and let them do or listen to or watch whatever they want. Guess which kids have behavorial problems and discipline problems out the wazoo? I personally was raised (by Christian parents) to think for myself, question authority, and not just do something because I'm told, but to ask why.
While I don't agree with some of the stuff FotF espouses, I believe their underlying principles and motives are sound and Biblical. The thing I feel bad about are that there are parents out there who raise their kids with no principles, allowing them to do whatever they want, allow them to do whoever the want, listen to whatever they want, teach them that there are no absolutes, and that all morals and ethics are relative. I've seen the results of kids who were raised this way, and it typically isn't pretty.
I plan on trying to raise my children to think for themselves, and to love God like I do, but not just take things at face value. I won't shove my beliefs down their throats, but at the same time, until they are old enough to make their own informed decisions, they won't be listening to or watching whatever they want. I don't feel most R-rated movies are appropriate for any 12-13 year old kids, the same with some music.
I too have read the music and movie reviews on FotF's website over the last few years and laughed at times over some of the things they've written. I like to think I have a fairly well developed sense of humor. But on the other hand, I do plan on using their review site (and others) to judge what is and isn't appropriate for my children. It is nice to know if a movie is riddled with profanity or nudity before taking an adolescent to sit through it.
-Keith